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天下苦家长群久矣丨退得出家长群,退不出内卷社会的教育压力

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首先,我要说声对不起,因为我是老师。

然后,我还要说声对不起,因为我要卖队友了。


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在群中,家长们对于学校老师发布的任务和要求,大多时候会一致性、无条件地认领和执行。


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师者,传道授业解惑也。


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教育本就是稀缺资源,一个班上三十多个孩子,老师也只能尽可能去关注每一个孩子,没办法做到绝对公允。这也是家长群里“盖楼谢师”的根本原因——每一个家长都希望自己的孩子获得更多来自教育工作者的关注。


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教育职责的边界感


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那部分执着于让家长批改作业的老师们,这个作业,到底是给学生留的还是给家长留的?


作为家长,确实该承担一部分教育的责任。退得出家长群,就能退出内卷社会的教育压力了吗?